What is Prostate Milking? How to milk the prostate?

What is Prostate Milking? How to milk the prostate? Who can do prostate milking? How to find the prostate? How to milk your partner? What are the benefits and risks?

What is Prostate Milking?

Milking is the act of massaging a man’s prostate gland through his anus to encourage him to ejaculate as much seminal fluid as possible. This act may be done for sexual pleasure or medical reasons. [1]

The term milking and the action associated with it are most commonly used within the BDSM community. Milking is also sometimes called a prostate massage. [1]

How to milk the prostate
How to milk the prostate

The prostate is a gland in the male reproductive system. One of its main functions is to produce prostate fluid, which mixes with other fluids and sperm to make semen. [2]

Who can do prostate milking?

Anyone with a prostate may be able to milk it. Some people find the massage painful or unpleasant to perform on themselves. In this case, depending on the goal of the stimulation, a person may ask a partner or a healthcare provider to perform the massage. [2]

How to find the prostate?

The prostate is a walnut-sized organ inside the rectum and just under the bladder. It wraps around the urethra, which is the tube that drains urine from the bladder.

The prostate tends to get larger with age, making it easier to locate.

To find the prostateTrusted Source, a person can insert a lubricated finger into the rectum, then push slightly on the front wall of the rectum. They may feel a slight bulge.

It is also possible to stimulate the prostate less directly by pushing upward on the skin between the testicles and the rectum, an area called the perineum.

Because the prostate is so close to the bladder and urethra, intense prostate stimulation can cause the urge to urinate. Prostatitis and other prostate problems may also lead to more frequent urination. [2]

How to milk the prostate?

First, a person should apply plenty of lubricant to a finger. Wearing gloves can make the insertion smoother, and it may also be a good idea because of hygiene concerns. Gently insert the lubricated finger into the anus, slowly pushing on the front wall of the rectum.

For most people, finding the prostate requires inserting the finger at least halfway in. Touching the prostate may produce an unusual or pleasurable sensation.

Begin by massaging the prostate in a consistent motion that feels pleasurable. Some people opt to masturbate or have another sexual contact during the massage. The person may have a very intense orgasm or feel an unusual sensation followed by fluid coming from the penis.

How to milk your partner?

To milk your partner’s prostate, insert a finger or more inside his anus. Feel for the prostate, a raised area at least one inch inside the anus which is about the size of a large walnut. Massage it gently but firmly, starting slowly before increasing the intensity.

Prostate Milking Your Partner
Prostate Milking Your Partner

The orgasm achieved through milking is commonly known as a prostate orgasm. This orgasm is said to be more intense and more pleasurable. The man may feel like he needs to urinate before this orgasm, even if his bladder is empty. It’s best to empty the bladder before milking to help the man relax.

It can be difficult for some men to accept something entering their anuses. Starting with a genital massage of the penis, testicles, and perineum can help these men relax and make the process feel less clinical. You may also incorporate milking with a hand job to increase his pleasure.

Never milk your partner’s prostate when your nails are long to ensure you don’t damage the skin inside the rectum. Hands should also be kept clean. Sterile latex gloves may be worn. Some water-based lubricant can make milking easier and more pleasurable. Alternatively, a milking device or sex toy can be used to milk the prostate. [1]

Why people do Milking?

The prostate is one of the male erogenous zones. An erogenous zone is a highly sensitive area of the body that may generate a sexual response when stimulated.

Prostate milking may be very pleasurable. Because the prostate plays a role in producing semen, stimulating it may produce a more intense orgasm during ejaculation. Some people practice prostate milking because of its purported health benefits, rather than for sexual stimulation.

Many people experience an orgasm from prostate milking, especially if they masturbate during it.

A person may not be able to distinguish between prostate fluid and ejaculated semen. Prostate fluid is one component of semen. When a male has an orgasm and ejaculates, sperm, prostate fluid, and other fluids present in the ejaculate.

Not all men ejaculate or have an orgasm during prostate milking. Masturbation and other forms of sexual contact make ejaculation during the massage more likely. [2]

What are the Benefits of Prostate Milking?

The primary benefit of prostate milking is that it feels good. It may make sex more pleasurable and enhance closeness between partners.

There is also limited evidence that prostate massage may improve prostate health.

A 2009 preliminary trial of a home prostate massage device found that men with chronic prostatitis or benign prostatic hyperplasia experienced a reduction in symptoms following a home prostate massage. [2]

What are the Risks of Milking?

Prostate milking is not usually dangerous. However, a very aggressive technique could, in theory, cause minor injury to the skin or rectum. Also, prostate massage, especially when it is intense or forceful, could be painful.

Prostate massage also presents a small risk of prostate infection. If a person massages the prostate with dirty hands, this could introduce bacteria into the area. Similarly, bacteria from the rectum can travel elsewhere if a person does not wash their hands thoroughly after a prostate massage.

Some people do not enjoy the sensation of prostate milking or any other anal stimulation. This does not mean that anything is wrong, it is simply a personal preference. [2]


[1] Kinky https://www.kinkly.com/definition/11279/milking

[2] Medical News Today https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/prostate-milking

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