How to use a Threesome to make her a Hotwife? This article has a focus on MFM 3some to make your wife/girlfriend a slut. This will lead you to a Cuckold lifestyle.
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In this article, we will talk about threesomes. Because we are looking into making a girlfriend or wife into a slut, we will be focusing on male, female, male (MFM) threesome. If she is into girls, then by all means, but you won’t need this post for that. Many of you find the hotwife topic a bit rough to bring up, (see previous posts for pointers), but many will find the MFM threesome fantasy easier to discuss and play with. Some wives feel safer and less pressure from the husband being involved and pushing the envelope, so this concept works better for some wives. In a sense, this conversation itself is the beginning of her slut life.
The MFM threesome idea is a common fantasy for both husbands and wives, often in the secret from each other. As always, I recommend being open with your significant other about your kinks and fantasies and playing around with them during sex to get a feel for them. That being said, a woman is much more likely to admit she has fantasized about an MFM threesome if her partner (you) confesses to having the same fantasy.
Now her having that fantasy will not give you a free ride into watching her get a two-for-one deal, but it makes things a bit easier. Her not having the fantasy does not mean you will never see it, but it will require extra effort.
Threesome Porn
As with the slutwife topic, you can use porn to open up the topic of a threesome and get a sense of how she feels about it. For all you know, she may have done it in the past. Either way, confess how you fantasize about it and want to play with the idea. Playing with the idea means you want her to accept to roleplay/pretend a threesome scenario, so do not try to get her to commit to trying it out.
Important to let her choose which threesome-related videos she likes best. Pay attention to what she chooses and what she says about it. Was it rough sex, romantic, guys were black, did they roleplay a scene, what was the scenario, etc. pay attention to what she likes. If she is into reading, erotic literature can help her build images in her mind of the perfect threesome.
Threesome With who?
Watch more threesome scenario porn with her and explore what kind of guy she would like if she “theoretically” accepted to try one. Would she prefer someone she knows or a stranger? Does she prefer a big dick? A black guy over white? Does she want some Latin Lover? Romantic? Rough? Muscular? Her boss? Coworker? Neighbor? An ex? Etc. Again, you are not asking her to commit, you want to have an open discussion and listen to her tastes. Have her build an ideal candidate in her mind. Learn what that ideal candidate is.
Threesome Roleplay
Begin role-playing the fantasy during sex. Use what you have learned she enjoys porn and is her ideal candidate. Use toys to make it hotter. Let her feel double penetrated. Eat her out while she sucks a dildo. Blindfold her and tell her the neighbor, boss, ex, or whoever she prefers is watching her. Switch up people after a few times of roleplay sex, but keep the threesome roleplay going. Always telling her how much you enjoy it all and how hot you find it all. Get creative and always make it pleasurable for her.
Go Online for an MFM Threesome
After she feels comfortable with roleplaying it. She may be more open to trying the real thing. It is downhill from there. If she is not convinced yet, which is likely, talk to her about playing with the fantasy a bit more. Go to an adult social media site where she can explore possibilities. Swinger sites, adult sites, and dating sites are good options. Take a few nonidentifiable pics of her and post you are both looking for a 3some partner, but only playing with the idea for now.
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Remember that she has not committed to doing it, so do not make promises. Also describe exactly the kind of guy she would like, to filter through. You will likely get various guys interested. The point here is to expose her more to the online community and see how these types of lifestyles are the norm now. Encourage her to talk to other men, and use all this during your roleplay to show her how hot it is.
Get her in Touch
Talk to her about reaching out to a guy you have roleplayed doing a threesome with. Boss, neighbor, coworker, guy online, etc. Have her choose a guy she will get in touch with a bit more. For example, she can add him on Facebook, give him her phone number, personal email, etc. If it’s someone who already has this info, such as a coworker, ask her to randomly text him.
Nothing crazy, just to see how he is doing and open up the conversation. As she does this, have her wear something sexy and eat her out. Begin to fuck her gently while pushing a toy into another orifice. Tell her to imagine it is him. Repeat this routine with as many guys as she would like to fantasize about, but focusing on a few core people works best.
Get Her Alone With Him
Tell her to find an excuse to meet up with the guy you have been fantasizing about doing a threesome with. It doesn’t have to be a “date”, but a quick lunch or quick visit to his business will work. She is not committing to fucking him, only to play around with the thought. The visit will be a normal type of lunch or visit, not sexual. That being said, let her know she is free to explore more sexually and that she can definitely invite him to a real-life threesome if he seems to steer that way.
Ask her to wear her sexiest lingerie and carry condoms in her purse, “just in case.” You will also rent a room and give her a key. Tell her you will wait for her there. Tell her she is getting fucked, either by you, him, or both of you, it will be her choice. Have her carry her toys in her purse as well. Odds are, she will arrive by herself, but you will roleplay that she arrived with her date and fuck her accordingly. Repeat procedures like this a few times. Ask her to be slightly more revealing and flirtier each time. Have her talk to you about anything she noticed, him staring, comments he made, etc. while you fuck her.
The Real Deal
At this point, talk to her about seriously doing a threesome with the guy of her choice. Offer to talk to the guy yourself to help set things up and discuss rules and safety measures. Leave it open for her to decide if she would like the threesome first or get to know the guy sexually a few times before doing two guys at once.
If for some reason she is not comfortable going through with it with a certain guy, talk about finding another. You could even hire the services of a professional male escort to help her break into it if she feels more comfortable. The important thing is to get her to agree to do it regardless of who it is with. Once she agrees, take a few days to set things up, talk to the third person about her likes and general expectations.
A soft approach
Depending on the wife’s needs, a slow buildup can be used even after all parties agree on the threesome idea. During this buildup, you and your wife will invite him to view both of you being sexual with each other, without participation outside of comments on how hot she is.
The buildup can start with a 3 person date where you makeout and grope her while he watches. Then you take her dancing and grope her in front of him while she moves her body very sexually in front of him. He can also be allowed to view sexy, nude, or sexual pictures of your wife while you both observe him. Also, he is always allowed to comment on how hot she looks and how he can’t wait to fuck her. He can also view the two of you having sex through a video call or listen on the phone. Bonus points if she talks to him during the sex and calls out his name during it.
Finally, he can be invited to watch the two of you having live sex from the sidelines without any touching or sexual activity on his part. Right after, the three of you should go out, have drinks, and she should dance with him. He should use his time to touch her and tell her how good she looks fucking, and how much he wants to fuck her. Throughout this entire soft approach, the wife should be free to talk, date, sext, or have any activity she wants with the third guy, including sex if she is feeling it.
The Big Day
Have a full 3 days off to spend with her for the special day. On the first day, take her shopping for her day. Buy her special lingerie and clothes for the event. Every woman will enjoy this attention. Next, talk to her about how much fun it is going to be and help her relax by eating her out.
The second day will be the threesome day. Start her off by setting up a massage, spa day for her, and don’t leave any house chores for her. She needs to be completely relaxed. Give her plenty of time to get ready for her big moment. Give her a glass of wine to help her relax. At the beginning of the date, pass drinks around and begin talking normally. You should both be complimenting how good she looks and make sure to keep your hands on her.
Do an occasional grope of her that the other man can see you touching her. If the mood requires it, a good threesome porn movie she enjoys could help get things going. Take her to the bedroom and ask him to join in and watch from the side. Start by making out with her and ask her to suck you off while giving him a view of her ass. He can then approach from behind and start touching her ass gently. He can take his time and go from soft touching to groping, and eating her out.
As she sucks you, he can talk to her about how bad he has been wanting to fuck her for a long time and how glad he is the day is here. He should then proceed to take her. Things can flow freely from there, but make sure at some point you let them have sex by themselves while you watch. Just let them enjoy each other. You can go grab water and take a couple of minutes in the kitchen while he fucks her, then comes back in and join.
Finish it off by talking about what an amazing experience it all was and how it was even better than expected. The third day, the day after the threesome, she should not have any chores to do. Tell her how much fun the threesome was and how you liked seeing her enjoy it so much also. Take her out on a nice long date and show her you are still the same loving husband and happier than ever.
As you may notice, some of these steps seem similar to other approaches in making her a hotwife. That is the point. You want to build a solid foundation of sexual ideas and experiences where you and your wife share sexual thoughts freely and easily adjust from one path to another as needed.
Going through with this plan will have her in a perfect position to explore sex with other men with you, by herself, and even threesomes or moresomes with other men. However, move slowly and take one idea at a time. Focus on her having casual sex with her new lover, with or without you. Ask her how she is feeling and keep things running smoothly. Her life as a slutwife will be a very rewarding one.
