Remember even if you don’t become a cuckold one day, you can still enjoy these Soft Cuckolding / Safe Cuckolding tips with your partner without making her cheat on you.
Talk about Desires
I can’t stress enough how much communication is the key here. We talked about this so many times but it is not only essential for the beginning but for the whole process. However, you need to find the correct ways of talking about this every step of the way since everyone couple is different.
One of the best ways to open up is by talking about your masturbation fantasies. But keep in mind the focus here should be on her and not your fantasy. What I mean is that you need to show that she is the star of your fantasy when you are enjoying yourself and not what it turns you on. When she feels that you like that and she is the star, she will want to get more of that for you. She will feel like a star who wants to pursue more. And what’s more enjoyable for a woman than turning on her man?
Let Her Talk
Obviously, by communication, we don’t mean that you dictate what you want. It is essential to open the dialogue and to express herself as well. She needs to feel that it is her idea as much as yours. So don’t ever push.
This is a great game that you can play together when you are outside or in bed. After an initial conversation with her, you have the excuse that you are just taking material for yourself for your next masturbation. So it will look innocent in her eyes. Remember to back off if she sees too much either of these steps and games.
This is a great way to make open herself. Let her talk about her past experiences, boyfriends or anything she wished to do before your relationship.
She needs to see that you ACTUALLY turned on by her stories either real or fake. She needs to trust that you won’t get unnecessary jealousy and even if you do, it is good jealousy.
Show Her The Norm
Let her see the various amount of porn in kink available on the website and other porn tubes. She needs to see that this is the norm and read more about it if she hears about it for the first time.
If someone complimented her let her know. If you think she is open about it you can ask to some friends or strangers what they think about her.
If you had previous cuckold experiences let her know that you are ok with it.
Cuckold Roleplay and Toys
Roleplay always works magic.
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Let Her Experience being a Hotwife without Cheating
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Enough of Toys, More Encouragement
After some time that she got the idea of bigger cocks, she needs to imagine actually taking them.
Encourage every little effort that she does. From her clothing to flirting with other men, she needs to know that it turns you on.
Drinking always helps. Bring enough booze for every step of the way so she will be loose enough.
Let Her Feel Safe and in Control
This may be the most important tip of all. She needs to feel secure and not forced. Of course, she may back out and you need to be ok with that. Not every woman may go all the way and they may go and wish to stop.
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