So many people enjoy being a hotwife or cuckold these days. One of the best parts for most wives is driving the husband insane with lust for her by giving him just the right blend of teasing and reassurance. Not only does this give the wife the freedom and variety of choosing her own sexual partners, but she also gets a husband who burns with desire for her.
For the purpose of this entry, I’m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relationship. Also, husband for the hotwife’s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boyfriend), and lover for the other sex partner who’s not the husband.
Here are some techniques you can use regularly on How to make a cuckolding session fun as a hotwife?
When Husband is Watching You with Another Man
Tell Him About Every Step
Communication is very important in a cuckold session. I know that some women prefer to spend time with their bull alone but most of the cuckolds enjoy feeling included in that. So little comments even before the sex start can make him feel included in the process. Ask him little questions about every step even if he is not going to join your date.
Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contact with him. Eye contact says, “Look at me!” and makes it impossible for either of you to ignore or trivialize what’s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, depending on your style and the message you’re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock eyes with my husband while I’m blowing my lover.
Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, “Look how much fun I’m having!” and “Everything is OK.” I love to smile at him when I’m riding my lover cowgirl-style.
If you are in the right position where you can face your husband and he is close to you, take advantage and kiss him. That would be full of love and lots of other mixed feelings for him as he kisses you and he feels the push your bull is giving you. That kiss will be something new you both won’t forget. And it is a reassuring thing that you still care for him.
You don’t have to jabber away, but it’s fun to say things now and then. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband’s watching. I also like to interact with him, asking, “How are you liking the show?” or “Don’t you wish you were doing this?” I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and how much fun he’s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are all great things to do, too. It’s also cute to call your husband by terms of endearment like honey, baby, etc. when you’re being fucked by another man.
Ask to do something for You
This doesn’t need to be something big. However, it will show that you are in lead. Most cuckolds enjoy a dominant woman, especially during the cuckold session. So you can ask something that both helps you and humiliates him at the same time.
Make Him Wait
Some bulls may be uncomfortable to start right away in front of your husband. For this, you can ask your husband to go out and to come in a few minutes after you started your sex. That way you both will be ready enough to not mind your husband watching or jerking off next to you.
When Husband is Listening from Another Room
Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encourage your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door and to your husband’s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.
Emerge, then Vanish
Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where your husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.
Make a Movie
Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV in the room where he’s sitting so he can watch live feed! He’ll be scratching at the door in no time.
When Husband is Not Around
Even if your husband/boyfriend is not present during your date with your bull you can still include your cuckold into it. This date can be arranged or spontaneous. However, it is important to know How to make a cuckolding session fun as a hotwife even if he is not there.
It’s fun to call him and put the phone on speakerphone while you’re getting railed. Then, the husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is letting your other guy call from his phone instead. It’s more humiliating.
Like above, but text dirty things. What you’re doing, feeling, etc. Have your other guy send your husband dirty pics of what you’re doing.
Ask Your Bull to Send Photos
Receiving texts and photos from you is something, but receiving them from another man is another level of humiliation. However, make sure that you both trust the bull enough for this kind of act. Most cuckolds will enjoy if the bull says something humiliating or how much they enjoy having sex with you.
I love having my husband walk in on me when he’s not expecting anything. Just make sure that you know he’d be OK with this, and that your lover is also OK with this. Some people don’t like surprises.
Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in his absence.
Make a Movie 2
Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the nightstand for him.
Leave Your Wedding Ring On
It is important for your husband to see that you are going out as a married woman and cheating on him. Also, this is going to be a great turn-on for your bull. Most bulls like to feel that they are fucking someone else’s wife. If you want to make things even hotter for a bull you met for the first time, you can tell him your husband does not know. A cheating woman is hot for lots of studs.
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