Definition – What is Chastity Cage (Cock-Cage) for Men?

The classic definition of Chastity cage is the state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual intercourse.

However, here we want to focus on Chastity Cage for women and not its general usage in the past or religious activities.

Chastity cage for men is a cage worn by men that prevents the man’s cock from getting hard and it also prevents him from being able to masturbate.

They range from simple leather or plastic toys commonly sold by adult stores to expensive high-security stainless steel devices made by a handful of specialist firms, including My-Steel, Neosteel, and Latowski in Germany, and Carrara Designs in Belgium. [1]

The internet has significantly increased the number of people using chastity devices, by making the purchase of a chastity device much easier while providing a private avenue for subcultures dedicated to their usage to thrive and connect with one another. [1]

Despite a historical association of chastity belts with women, worldwide purchasing demand for male chastity belts is reportedly far higher than purchasing demand for female chastity devices.

As a consequence, the male chastity devices market offers more options and diversity compared to what is available for female chastity devices.

Among male chastity devices, “cock-and-ball” trap devices are the most popular, followed by typically more secure full belt (around-the-waist) style devices. [1]

Chastity in Relationship / Marriage

Among some couples, chastity-cage is being used as a device to control their men’s sexual desires (usually in a case of femdom or some other form of domination).

In this case, it can be categorized as a BDSM fetish in which men enjoy being denied and controlled (maybe as extreme as being a slave) and by women who enjoy control and their freedom of sexuality.

In these kinds of relationships, the woman usually becomes the keyholder of the chastity cage. Women can wear the key as a necklace to humiliate their partner or sometimes even lend it to their friends or others.

Caging a man places a lot of responsibility in the hands of the keyholder. While slight discomfort is common for those who put their penises in cages, in more serious cases a faulty or poorly set-up cage can cause serious injury, and if that happens, a keyholder needs to be able to remove the device right away.

Chastity is also been proven to be very effective in sexless relationships where there is hardly any adventure involved in the relationship. This device can bring a new dynamic where the woman is in control and makes the husband more attentive in the whole relationship.

This happens because now all of his ability to come either by masturbation or sex is dependent on his wife. There are several reports of married couples who benefitted in this way from using this device in their bedroom.

Chastity Cage in Cuckolding

Among some couples, this can be combined with cuckolding. In these cases, the woman in a relationship as a Hotwife not only enjoys her own sexual adventures. She also controls when or ever her cuckold partners masturbation and intercourse.

Keyholding in this kind of relationship can be done by Hotwife or even her Bull.

In some of the cuckolding relationships where there is a particular Bull or (Bullfriend or Wife’s Boyfriend) for the Hotwife, he can demand chastity for the cuckolded husband. This will further humiliate the cuck or even prevent him from sex with his own wife.

This kind of relationship not only prevents the cuckold sexually but, also shows his place in the dynamic of the whole relationship.

Chastity Cage without a partner

While locked up, you can’t masturbate or orgasm and the cage can only be removed by your designated “keyholder”. While the thought of this makes most men cringe, it makes others whimper with excitement.

Being caged can be extremely exciting and fulfilling. Some people say orgasm Denial increases their sex drive and improves their focus.

Some single men also look for a woman as a key holder from the beginning. Vise versa some women who are looking for a slave partner or a cuckold partner can ask for a chastity device from the beginning of a relationship.

Chastity Cage and Feminization (Sissification)

In some relationships, the fetish of using chastity can go even further to Pegging the man or making him wear girly clothes while wearing the chastity cage to feminize the man and take his masculinity away.

Using chastity in feminization is one of the popular ways of using this device solely. Some people who are doing self feminization as a cross-dresser or in a phase of changing their identity fully as a transgender will use Chastity Cage too.

However, in this way of using it, the focus is not denying the orgasm or not having it at all but encouraging it through the anal orgasm of men. This can be done by plug, dildo, strapon, or even another man.

Men in chastity seek orgasm control as a form of submission. They are delighted to be denied until “paroled for good behavior” or other merits and then locked again ASAP for a new cycle. [2]

On the contrary, cross-dressers submitted to chastity devices feel liberated from the burden of maleness, free to explore further their feminine side without inhibitions.

Quest for pleasure is a very powerful stimulus and to be effective in frustrating unwanted attempts, chastity devices should be accepted as tamper-proof. [2]

Source:

[1] wikipedia.org/wiki/Chastity_belt

[2] femineaaeterna.blogspot.com/